Monday, December 9, 2013

Judgements

Judgement by Rosea Lake reflecting how women are judged by their skirt length | Follow Mode-sty offers stylish modest clothing tznius jewish orthodox muslim hijab islamic mormon lds pentecostal evangelical christian
"Judgements" by Rosea Lake
While in high school, Rosea Lake, currently a student at Capilano University in Vancouver, created a powerful image showing how the world judges women based on their skirt length. Here piece is titled "Judgements" and was originally posted by Rosea in January and almost immediately went viral and prompted a lot of discussion
One article that stood out to us was a piece by sociologist and professor Lisa Wade that discussed how women, more so then men, have to be acutely aware of what to wear in different settings because the ramifications can be harsh. For women who dress modestly, and therefore limit the skirt lengths they will consider wearing, it is interesting to consider how these social understandings do and don't affect us. Dr. Wade's full piece is below we'd love to here your thoughts on "Judgements" and on Dr. Wade's analysis. 

To keep up with everything modest and fabulous sign up for our emailsvisit our store and follow us on Pinterest and Keep.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

THE BALANCING ACT OF BEING FEMALE; OR, WHY WE HAVE SO MANY CLOTHES

by Lisa Wade, PhD,
What I like about the image is the way it very clearly illustrates two things.  First, it reveals that doing femininity doesn’t mean obeying a single, simple rule. Instead, it’s about occupying and traveling within a certain space.  In this case, usually between “proper” and “flirty.”  Women have to constantly figure out where in that space they’re supposed to be.  Too flirty at work mean’s you won’t be taken seriously; too proper at the bar and you’re invisible.  Under the right circumstances (e.g., Halloween, a funeral), you can do “cheeky” or “old fashioned.”
The second thing I like about this image is the way it shows that there is a significant price to pay for getting it wrong.  It’s not just a faux pas.  Once you’re “‘asking for it,” you could be a target. And, once you’re reached “prudish,” you’ve become socially irrelevant.  Both violence and social marginalization are serious consequences.
And, of course, all women are going to get it wrong sometimes because the boundaries are moving targets and in the eye of the beholder. What’s cheeky in one setting or to one person is flirty in or to another.  So women constantly risk getting it wrong, or getting it wrong to someone.  So the consequences are always floating out there, worrying us, and sending us to the mall.
Indeed, this is why women have so many clothes!  We need an all-purpose black skirt that does old fashioned, another one to do proper, and a third to do flirty… at the very least… and all in casual, business, and formal.   And we need heels to go with each (stilettos = provocative, high heels = flirty, low heels  = proper, etc, plus we need flats for the picnics and beach weddings etc).  And we need pants that are hemmed to the right length for each of these pairs of shoes.  You can’t wear black shoes with navy pants, so you’ll need to double up on all these things if you want any variety in your wardrobe. I could go on, but you get the picture.
Women’s closets are often mocked as a form of self-indulgence, shop-a-holicism, or narcissism.  But this isn’t fair.  Instead, if a woman is class-privileged enough, they reflect an (often unarticulated) understanding of just how complicated the rules are.  If they’re not class-privileged enough, they can’t follow the rules and are punished for being, for example, “trashy” or “unprofessional.”  It’s a difficult job that we impose on women and we’re all too often damned-if-we-do and damned-if-we-don’t.

----------------

If you're looking for beautiful dresses or skirts that are knee length or longer than check out our Pinterest and follow us:

Visit Mode-sty.com's profile on Pinterest.

No comments:

Post a Comment